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An escalation ladder is basically where you begin with small touches, and increasing get more physical until you kiss the girl. And to really create HARD attraction in your escalation ladder, all three types of physical moves — escalation, pushing, and moving — will need be there in the social interaction. So let me explain. As you talk to the girl in that bar and club, to create hard attraction you must escalate the physical touching.
Where you are always physically escalating up the ladder, shamelessly. A slow, steady, constant, physical escalation, where you the push the boundaries. All examples of physical escalating up the ladder.
And you want to push the girl away, so that she has the opportunity to also game YOU. Like if you took a girl by the hand as you met her, and you never let go. You just kept massaging her hand, kept massaging, kept massaging, it would start to feel weird after a while. It would be far more effective to start massaging her hand and then playfully push her away, and then grab her and pull her back in to you. And she came up to you and she put her hand on your butt and squeezed it as she told you that she thought you were cute.
But then, she just kept squeezing your butt. And she kept squeezing your butt more. And you told her it was feeling a bit weird now… but she KEPT squeezing your butt anyway.
Like it would be far more effective if she squeezed your butt and then pushed YOU away, and then escalated perhaps by taking your hand or doing something different. That just keeps her on her toes and guessing and trying to win you over. And then you nudge her back with a slight push. Stop it! Just something simple like that, to create some space and give the girl the opportunity to chase you. Yes, you need to actually physically move the girl around the bar or club or party. It could be moving her from the dance floor over to the bar, or moving her just 3 feet over.
And you can lead the girl around ALL night, or as long as you keep up the social interaction with her. So you want to isolate the girl from her friends when energy the in the set is good and you want to isolate sooner rather than later.
Or you can charm her friends to get them on your side. Move her, lead her. NOT just to isolate her. You want to be moving her because it creates huge, HARD attraction. Now to finish off your physical escalation ladder. Not at all. And when you try to contact her for a second date, she will push you away or avoid you completely.
So as soon as you touch her neck, you are in the lover category. And light neck kissing builds the sexual tension to screaming white hot molten lava, without making her feel strange or slutty like a tongue-to-tongue make-out would.
She can leave the party that night and start thinking about how nice it would be to get that first kiss from you. It gets her equally hot and intimate, and yet leaves more to her imagination for next time. So this is how you execute your finishing move. You lean in and you smell her hair first. Then you begin lightly, delicately, barely touching her skin with your lips, with teasingly light kissing and lightly biting her neck.
THEN you push her away. The PUSH. Oh my god stop it — you are dangerous for me. There are 3 types of physical moves, and you want all 3 ideally to create solid, hard attraction. And you finish it off by smelling her hair, smelling her neck, and then lightly kissing and biting with a push away to allow her to chase.
Wanting to be the nice guy that is liked by everyone, that is liked by the girl at all costs will be your biggest barrier. So I want you to remember 3 old rules here. Remember that being Reckless means trying to create havoc and chaos. VERY physical. So you need to make bold moves, no what if scenarios.
Light attraction to sex is a BIG jump. Because ALL physical touch triggers that Oxytocin response in the woman either way. When escalating your touch up the escalation ladder, have a complete disregard for her reactions.
Just make an excuse for everything you do. If she says anything, you just misinterpret it as a compliment. And you just continue, not reacting to her. Being unreactive, an example. And you hug her, you pick her up from floor, you dance with her, you spin her around.
And none of your failed attempts to kiss her cheek and bite her neck seem to stop you from trying again and again and again. You touch without hesitation, you take actions and speak with certainty and conviction. So just chill and trust that every move you make is right. Just touch and take action. Reading this lesson has taught me a lot ive been a failure with women all my life. I hope for opportunities to use these tactics. I work in a place where I meet lots of women but im short and find it hard to create attraction with women.
The other night I met a oriental women,we were checking out a loaf of bread together standing arm to arm,but being the nice guy that I am,failed to connect with the attractive women who I would have loved to have some connection with her,but lost out on a opportunity.
I probably would have flipped the f out if I saw this in my 20s. Thank you for disseminating this information in a straightforward, yet respectful way, only addressing the factual biological and social impulses and characteristics of both genders equally without judgement, belittling or arrogance.
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An escalation ladder is basically where you begin with small touches, and increasing get more physical until you kiss the girl. And to really create HARD attraction in your escalation ladder, all three types of physical moves — escalation, pushing, and moving — will need be there in the social interaction. So let me explain. As you talk to the girl in that bar and club, to create hard attraction you must escalate the physical touching. Where you are always physically escalating up the ladder, shamelessly. A slow, steady, constant, physical escalation, where you the push the boundaries. All examples of physical escalating up the ladder.
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